You became my adventuring companion
nearly twenty years ago, accompanying my on a canoe trip. Since that
September, you have been on nearly every adventure I have sought. You
have sailed the Atlantic Ocean and Caribbean Sea. You have backpacked
in multiple states, sometimes as my only companion on an otherwise
solo trip. You have helped to build a hospital in the Dominican. You
watched an old woman's face light up with joy and awe when seeing the
work your team complete to make her house livable again more than a
year after Katrina.
You have explored Mayan ruins and
current Mayan village life in Belize. I think you skipped the
European trips as staying in heated rooms is too civilized for your
tastes.
But, you have been with me every step
in my career, including the current adventure in Africa. You have
been a pot holder, a wash cloth, a sweat rag, and a handkerchief. You
have hidden dirty hair and helped keep hair clean when dust and dirt
were flying. You have filtered debris from water so I can drink and
out of air so I can breath.
Wearing my bandanna while walking in Buthe Butha, Lesotho. |
You, my dear bandanna, are a jack of all
trades.
You, my dear bandanna, are beginning to
show your age; wearing thin and starting to tear.
You, my dear bandanna, cannot and will
not be replaced by coarser, stiffer bandannas.
You see, my dear bandanna, you are not
simply my dear bandanna. You are cherished and loved more than all
other bandannas; more than the colorful and creative ways emblazoned
with “YMCA Camp Pendalouan,” more than the nautical one Ashley
gave me, more than any other could be.
But, my dear bandanna, you are in fact
not my bandanna at all.
You were given to me for that canoe
trip nearly twenty years ago. Mom offered you to me most likely to
avoid spending more money meeting the school's list of required
items.
And, in the way of teenagers borrowing
things from their parents, I kept you. I adopted you for your
superior softness. You really are better than any other bandanna I
have encountered.
But what I did not know at fifteen is
that you are more than just a bandanna. You are my piece of home. You
are the physical representation of my mother with and supporting me
in these incredible moments of my life.
And maybe that is why you did not join
me in Europe, my dear bandanna. Because I traveled with family and you
knew your support would not be needed in the same way.
So thank you, Mom, for the bandanna you
lent me nearly two decades ago. It has been with me unconditionally,
just like you. It may just be a scrap of soft, blue cotton, but to me
it represents so much more. Every time I use it, I think of you and
your unwavering support of my thirst for experiences, travel, and
adventure. Every time I use it, I think of your love.
I love it and I love you. Happy Mother's Day!
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